Perhaps you are wondering if she is even carrying your baby. Maybe friends and family are encouraging you to push her to have an abortion. Whatever your situation, you are not alone. Lots of couples experience a "suprise" pregnancy and immediatly worry about how this will affect their future. Abortion seems like an easy and legal choice but it does have significant risks tht you may not understand. Having a baby doesn't mean the end of your dreams.

She needs your friendship now more than ever.

The world says that abortion is "a woman's choice" but the woman in a crisis pregnancy rarely wants to make that choice alone. She is looking to you for support because she can't confide in many people about this crisis situation. Assure her that you will stand beside her in whatever way she neesds through this crisis. Inform her immediately that she doesn't need to have an abortion to please you. Remember that abortion doesn't erase a mistake-it only adds new ones. Abortion is PERMANENT. There is no "undoing" this decision. Wait and research all your options and know that we are here to help.